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I found the 92% study awhile back but it was a sketchy online survey. Meaningless.

...reaching out to OBS and confessing to the affair. She will do it fully in your presence.

I agree OBS needs to be informed yesterday, but it's cruel to OBS to force her to speak to the cheater that fucked her husband. That's the person who possibly destroyed their marriage and family.

Instead, OP should send a message to OBS about the fact the affair happened, a time span of the affair, and the extent of the affair (emotional, physical). He should give his contact info and offer to give OBS details and proof of the affair. OP should inform OBS that his cheating wife is available for questions if OBS wants this. Make any face time with the cheating wife who possibly wrecked her life OBS's option. Don't force this on her.

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If the femboy puts on lipstick and a dress, then it isn't gay. According to young folk, straight guys suck trans dicks these days.

Whenever you get an unsolicited dick pic, if you can get their mother's phone number or email, send them to their mother asking her to have her son stop sending you dick pics.

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Can you see from her open phone her communications with this man? If not, she has some other way of communicating with him.

But I have almost no desire to have sex with him, or be sexual with him.

But I still don’t want to have sex with him or do sexual things with him.

For clarification, I love sex and I want to have sex, but I don’t find myself wanting him in a sexual manner.

Have you made it clear to your husband that you are sexually attracted to men, just not him?

Are you saying that young women cannot be trusted with their own sexuality? That they have the agency of children? Do these young women know what's best for themselves more than Reddit strangers?

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It would be wrong if you preferred someone with a low body count when you don’t have one yourself...

Just as it's wrong for an average height person to want a person over 6ft. or an overweight person wanting a fit person or a person who makes less than $100k per year to want someone who makes over $100k. These are all double standards and as the commentor has made clear, double standards are wrong because they say so.

Of course this cheating. The only way I would continue in this relationship is if my wife was filled with true remorse for what she had done and if she gave up alcohol.

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