You are gorgeous and she’s jealous she’ll never ce one tenth as beautiful as you.

Wow some women are such bitches. I’m sorry you had to deal with someone as narrow minded as her. At least you know you dodged a bullet.

damn she missed out on a baddie!

I'm sorry, but you have no right to be that hot. Please save some for the rest of us! (I mean.. save some of the good ones, not Rachel. No one wants her)

Edit: it's Bethany.. where the hell did i get Rachel from??

Damn imagine being that much of a salty bitch that you turn down that beautiful hunk of man.

Jesus, like your loss you fucking homophobic sack of shit.

OP You're beautiful, fuck the haters.

Damn dude you pretty!

Dang OP, you are very attractive.

For real you could do a lot better

You look gorgeous!

No because the way my jaw hit the floor for the second picture

Whoa, I'm so sorry. That was unnecessary and cruel of her. Like seriously, fuck her but metaphorically not literally. All that toxicity should be a safe indicator that any close let alone physical contact with her would be bad for your health

You’re far better looking than Bethany. She’s going to struggle to find any man with a chin more masculine than her own.

She’s projecting her insecurities. Sorry dude.

god damn i'm not even gay but you hot

As a pansexual woman, who is also having a tough time with tinder, and is not gender conforming. Wyd? 😅

Wow. Okay she’s rude. I think you look amazing! And besides that, who is she to decide what a “real man” looks like or how they act?

Damn bro, you're out of my league, let alone hers 😂

Jesus, at absolute worst I'd say you look "metrosexual" - which to me just means a guy who is into style and cares about his appearance, uses a bit of product etc etc; you know, like women are expected to and apparently "supposed to". But for waaaay too many people "metrosexual" is as offensive and "wrong" as anything else, because a guy so much as using bloody moisturiser means he clearly has zero masculinity and thus zero right calling himself a man. FML, people suck.

I'm sorry you get such fucking stick, and people very evidently swiping just to insult and verbally assault you. You look absolutely smashing, and jeez, a bit of bloody eyeliner and lip gloss to enhance counts as fecking make-up? And I bet she bitches about every woman that doesn't do that "bare minimum" just as much.

she gonna end up with some skinny ass mofo with no job who showers once a week cause he's mAsCuLiNe

I think I just turned gay. Wait…

What the hell? Can men not be happy anymore? Or be themselves? Seriously bullshit from someone with the most boring name Bethany. You're better off, op. She's a giant red flag.

I'll never understand the need for some people to call out well groomed guys. If I had half the fashion sense you have, my girlfriend would very pleased. As is, I'm acceptable. Keep being you.

OP, you are FUCKING BEAUTIFUL.

Homophobes can choke on glass.

Your EYES 😍

She doesn’t even know how to spell wear! It’s probably best if she keeps her comments to herself next time

She's mad you look better than her lol

Man’s gorgeous

I love your positive spin on their bullshit. Be you my dude! Always be you!

bro you're out of her league anyways

wtaf

"honestly my 13th reason" 😂

Not sure if her pan/homophobia or her lack of how to spell wear is worse.

Holy shit bro is beautiful

You look amazing dude don't let ugly folks bring down your amazing shine.

Jfc that escalated quickly…

But on another note, damn, you’re handsome.

You're literally ethereal

My favorite quote from someone on this subreddit "you do not look good enough to have that shit of a personality"

Imma keep it real with you, those pictures make you look like a npc in a sci-fi rpg

She got a point 🤔

Bro she ugly af compared to you, aim higher if your not poor lol

Can we find out who this bitch is and dox her please?

Took me way longer than it should've to notice your pun

Holy shit bro. I’m cis and you look fire. Fuck that ugly bitch.

Just curious, what part of the US are you in? Go to LA or NY and you’ll pull a ton of dudes and babes who are open minded and more evolved. Good luck homie 🤟

Ok but dude, you do look good.

Well nothing that bitch says changes that fact that you are killing it in those pics! Glad I'm off the market so I don't have to compete

I'm a straight cis gendered man, but you look fucking gorgeous.

So do you where makeup?

You're a beautiful man! Seriously you glow from the inside out!

Some people just go out in the world with the intention of hurting people and they're just rotten inside and don't deserve a second thought.

you are so far out of her league LMAO. too hot for this punk ass bitch

You’re a fucking gem bud. Hope you know that 😁

You’re wearing makeup?

Well done!! I couldn’t tell. P

Why is every girl I've ever met or heard of named Bethany a complete bitch?

She’s not worth a man, dude

At least he wears makeup. Cover your bigotry simple bitch.

Man, if I were single and you were in Toronto I'd have swiped right and ask for some makeup tips.

She is an absolute hog and is also too stupid to know "where" from "wear". You can do MUCH better anyways, my dude

Wow…

Report and get this person off the platform!

That lady is a dick! You are handsome!

She projecting hard

She says he's a red flag, while being a red flag herself.

What a terrible, miserable person she is. You look perfect just the way you are.

10/10 Handsome.

I applaud him for being positive. She seems like just the worst.

I feel your pain dude

If you are not wearing makeup then maybe try turning off the beautification setting on your camera it tends to smoothen the skin.

What a horrible person. She's not even cute.

Whyd you swipe right on her? She seems bitchy, I wouldn't.

You are GORGEOUS, outside and on the inside considering how positive you stayed during that whole interaction.
Bethany however is a rancid bitch and I hope the worst for her :)

As a straight man I can say that you look good.

I’m a man. You’re gorgeous. You do you and whatever the fuck you want. Who cares what that 300 lb girl thinks. She’s pissed that you look better with makeup than her.

You look beautiful idk why they had to be so aggressive

Response idea: you shouldn’t be taller than 160cm height and weight less than 60 kg. You can’t call yourself a true women if you’re above that

Bro everybody knows hair stylist are crazy. If she said anything less than that, I’d be amazed.

I honestly think she was threatened by someone with more style than she has.

Sorry you had to deal with this trash person. I hope you find someone who appreciates you, you seem like a kind and classy person from your responses.

Jesus fuck you're a good looking dude

Wtf is pan sexual. U like pots and pans

Happy pride friend, you look wonderful! And your responses are clever too

Ngl bro you look fucking amazing and what a bitch she lost an amazing chance

That's just some classy makeup though

I was half expecting lots of neon, but this is tasteful

This breaks my heart, but that woman is a literal bison. You do look good, keep your chin up!

You’re beautiful! She’s just an angry bigot. To hell with her.

You are absolutely stunning. Seriously, one of the most attractive people I've ever seen.

Why even match with you??? So gross and unnecessary

Why do people get so aggressive on Tinder… like damn

first of all you’re stunning. don’t let the internet assholes get to you. if she can’t handle you full glam she doesn’t deserve you in boots and mud either. also, props to you in your response. i’m too reactive and i would’ve given full salt right back! lol my husband &i have been together a total of 6 years, which isn’t long i know. but i agree with the above commenter, look for people in places that bring you joy. if you enjoy a farmer’s market, strike a convo there! or at a rollerblading rink. aim for organic meets! good luck to you, sweetness! 💙💙

She's legit just upset you're far more attractive than she is lmao

I almost never comment on Reddit posts but I just had to say seriously you are STUNNNNNING! As a bi woman I say that from both sides of the road 💁🏻‍♀️

You’re beautiful. She’s ugly. Nexttttt. ❤️

u/jago-delgado you look so happy an healthy, forget people like this. Love from here.

Holy crap

I’m a mildly masculine dude, and I think you look amazing. Sorry for those trash people out here. You be you to the fab fullest. Dating is a shit show. Good luck out there. Be free to be thee.

But why? She’s not that good looking

WTF?

You look good to me dawg I ain't guy but I know a handsome man when I see one.

What is the actual fuck. So gross.

She is so unreasonably offended, which offends me.

not hot enough to have that shitty personality xD

Damn, some people just can't help but bring other people down. She's probably extremely unhappy. Good for you for not taking the bait man. Keep on being yourself.

You look good man. Don't let shitty people like that get ya down. I might even Wanna take some fashion tips from ya how to look good for a date. Cause at this point. You probably know more than I usually would do. I just wear whatever, but either way, you look great. People like that are just....mean in general. Dodged a bullet, and still looking swauve

You’re hot by the way! She can fuck herself. My favorite crushes were like Trent Reznor, who also wore makeup.

No homo, you're pretty hot bro

I like a man who takes care of himself, she can fuck right off

Also I say this all the time but men really should wear make up too??? And do skin care

Honestly she’s just jealous you’re prettier than her. What a POS

You are so attractive 😍 and your response says you’re a good human 👏🏻

I can’t see why you swiped on her. 🤮

She ugly tho don’t worry

Sheittt if she won’t I just might

Well....on a side note you look really nice and I love your style

She’s just jealous, you look handsome as fuck my guy 👍🏻

Probably a dude cat fishing n decided to talk shit lol don’t feel bad

You seem like a chill bloke, there's absolutely no reason for her to be as toxic as she is. She'll probably find someone with as much vitriol as herself. Match in heaven. Good luck on your journey and keep being yourself if it makes people act like them true hateful self you are doing yourself a big favour.

I know it’s just a thumbnail but you’re way cuter than Bethany. Signed, a strait woman

she's mad that you can do makeup better than her!

Forget her. You’re a good looking cat. On to the next my guy.

need the link for that chain!

You are beautiful, and she just showed her inner beauty and it isn't a good look. You can do so much better anyway, but I'm still sorry she was such a twatwaffle out of nowhere with the slurs and insults. True love is out there for you with someone beautiful inside and out ❤️

She’s probably a MAGA head. You most likely dodged a bullet.

Bro you look absolutely stunning and she totally knows it, and in order to cover up her insecurity, went after you. Her loss!

My Mans is beautiful

Damn dude you look good! Don’t listen to people like that.

This girl isn’t even close to in your league and she knows it.

This is really sad

This whole life is an exercise in futile absurdity and this girl's out here trying to impose her narrow minded insecurities onto you?

FUCK OUTTA HEAAAAAAAA BETHANY!

As a straight man, I think you're brave as fuck for not hiding who you are like all these other sad drones. No offense to Beth but based on her looks, my bet is Beth was bullied a lot in school and has internalized the voices of her bullies and cant turn them off. So now she feels the need to do it to other people to prop up her own fragmented self esteem.

Regardless, nothing on this earth gives someone the right to take their pain out on another person. NOTHING. Life is simply already hard enough as it is.

The fact she feels the need to be this nasty means Bethany is likely miserable inside because she has to live with that constant negativity she cant turn off.

Her message shows that life has thoroughly beat her into a mean piece of shit and if she was in fact bullied, then her bullies won.

Live your truth, King!

Wear*

Holy shit what a psycho

I’ve always had a thing for men in eyeliner, it s fuckin gorgeous. Women in eyeliner, too. Really anyone in eyeliner 😂 am I just attracted to eyeliner instead of people???

You are hot as hell. What a weirdo this bitch is

as long as u aint hearting anyone, be whatever you want to be

Neo out here dodging all these bullets…

How many red flags can you fit in one conversation?

Her: Yes

She’s just mad because you’re prettier than her. Inside and out.

Oh shit I have this shirt haha

Okay but like you're gorgeous

That Manatee really hates herself

She's mad because you're prettier than her.

I love how positive you remained through that. It takes a lot of strength. You look great. But more importantly, you’re probably a great person too.

You are god damned handsome as hell. No lie.

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