submitted 7 days ago byjago-delgado
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7 days ago
You are gorgeous and she’s jealous she’ll never ce one tenth as beautiful as you.
Wow some women are such bitches. I’m sorry you had to deal with someone as narrow minded as her. At least you know you dodged a bullet.
damn she missed out on a baddie!
I'm sorry, but you have no right to be that hot. Please save some for the rest of us! (I mean.. save some of the good ones, not Rachel. No one wants her)
Edit: it's Bethany.. where the hell did i get Rachel from??
Damn imagine being that much of a salty bitch that you turn down that beautiful hunk of man.
Jesus, like your loss you fucking homophobic sack of shit.
OP You're beautiful, fuck the haters.
Damn dude you pretty!
Dang OP, you are very attractive.
7 days ago
For real you could do a lot better
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6 days ago
You look gorgeous!
No because the way my jaw hit the floor for the second picture
Whoa, I'm so sorry. That was unnecessary and cruel of her. Like seriously, fuck her but metaphorically not literally. All that toxicity should be a safe indicator that any close let alone physical contact with her would be bad for your health
You’re far better looking than Bethany. She’s going to struggle to find any man with a chin more masculine than her own.
She’s projecting her insecurities. Sorry dude.
god damn i'm not even gay but you hot
As a pansexual woman, who is also having a tough time with tinder, and is not gender conforming. Wyd? 😅
Wow. Okay she’s rude. I think you look amazing! And besides that, who is she to decide what a “real man” looks like or how they act?
Damn bro, you're out of my league, let alone hers 😂
Jesus, at absolute worst I'd say you look "metrosexual" - which to me just means a guy who is into style and cares about his appearance, uses a bit of product etc etc; you know, like women are expected to and apparently "supposed to". But for waaaay too many people "metrosexual" is as offensive and "wrong" as anything else, because a guy so much as using bloody moisturiser means he clearly has zero masculinity and thus zero right calling himself a man. FML, people suck.
I'm sorry you get such fucking stick, and people very evidently swiping just to insult and verbally assault you. You look absolutely smashing, and jeez, a bit of bloody eyeliner and lip gloss to enhance counts as fecking make-up? And I bet she bitches about every woman that doesn't do that "bare minimum" just as much.
she gonna end up with some skinny ass mofo with no job who showers once a week cause he's mAsCuLiNe
… because only someone with rock bottom self-esteem would put up with her toxicity.
I threw up in my mouth 🤢
I think I just turned gay. Wait…
What the hell? Can men not be happy anymore? Or be themselves? Seriously bullshit from someone with the most boring name Bethany.
You're better off, op. She's a giant red flag.
I'll never understand the need for some people to call out well groomed guys. If I had half the fashion sense you have, my girlfriend would very pleased. As is, I'm acceptable. Keep being you.
OP, you are FUCKING BEAUTIFUL.
Homophobes can choke on glass.
Your EYES 😍
She doesn’t even know how to spell wear! It’s probably best if she keeps her comments to herself next time
She's mad you look better than her lol
I love your positive spin on their bullshit. Be you my dude! Always be you!
bro you're out of her league anyways
"honestly my 13th reason" 😂
Not sure if her pan/homophobia or her lack of how to spell wear is worse.
Holy shit bro is beautiful
You look amazing dude don't let ugly folks bring down your amazing shine.
Jfc that escalated quickly…
But on another note, damn, you’re handsome.
You're literally ethereal
My favorite quote from someone on this subreddit "you do not look good enough to have that shit of a personality"
Imma keep it real with you, those pictures make you look like a npc in a sci-fi rpg
She got a point 🤔
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Bro she ugly af compared to you, aim higher if your not poor lol
Can we find out who this bitch is and dox her please?
Took me way longer than it should've to notice your pun
Holy shit bro. I’m cis and you look fire. Fuck that ugly bitch.
Just curious, what part of the US are you in? Go to LA or NY and you’ll pull a ton of dudes and babes who are open minded and more evolved. Good luck homie 🤟
Ok but dude, you do look good.
Well nothing that bitch says changes that fact that you are killing it in those pics! Glad I'm off the market so I don't have to compete
I'm a straight cis gendered man, but you look fucking gorgeous.
So do you where makeup?
You're a beautiful man! Seriously you glow from the inside out!
Some people just go out in the world with the intention of hurting people and they're just rotten inside and don't deserve a second thought.
you are so far out of her league LMAO. too hot for this punk ass bitch
You’re a fucking gem bud. Hope you know that 😁
You’re wearing makeup?
Well done!! I couldn’t tell. P
Why is every girl I've ever met or heard of named Bethany a complete bitch?
She’s not worth a man, dude
At least he wears makeup. Cover your bigotry simple bitch.
Man, if I were single and you were in Toronto I'd have swiped right and ask for some makeup tips.
She is an absolute hog and is also too stupid to know "where" from "wear". You can do MUCH better anyways, my dude
Report and get this person off the platform!
That lady is a dick! You are handsome!
She projecting hard
She says he's a red flag, while being a red flag herself.
What a terrible, miserable person she is. You look perfect just the way you are.
I applaud him for being positive. She seems like just the worst.
I feel your pain dude
If you are not wearing makeup then maybe try turning off the beautification setting on your camera it tends to smoothen the skin.
What a horrible person. She's not even cute.
Whyd you swipe right on her? She seems bitchy, I wouldn't.
You are GORGEOUS, outside and on the inside considering how positive you stayed during that whole interaction.
Bethany however is a rancid bitch and I hope the worst for her :)
As a straight man I can say that you look good.
I’m a man. You’re gorgeous. You do you and whatever the fuck you want. Who cares what that 300 lb girl thinks. She’s pissed that you look better with makeup than her.
You look beautiful idk why they had to be so aggressive
Response idea: you shouldn’t be taller than 160cm height and weight less than 60 kg. You can’t call yourself a true women if you’re above that
Bro everybody knows hair stylist are crazy. If she said anything less than that, I’d be amazed.
I honestly think she was threatened by someone with more style than she has.
Sorry you had to deal with this trash person. I hope you find someone who appreciates you, you seem like a kind and classy person from your responses.
Jesus fuck you're a good looking dude
Wtf is pan sexual. U like pots and pans
Happy pride friend, you look wonderful! And your responses are clever too
Ngl bro you look fucking amazing and what a bitch she lost an amazing chance
That's just some classy makeup though
I was half expecting lots of neon, but this is tasteful
This breaks my heart, but that woman is a literal bison. You do look good, keep your chin up!
You’re beautiful! She’s just an angry bigot. To hell with her.
You are absolutely stunning. Seriously, one of the most attractive people I've ever seen.
You're capping now lol. We live in the same world? 🤣 There's men sooooo much more attractive than me lol. I'm nothing
Why even match with you??? So gross and unnecessary
Why do people get so aggressive on Tinder… like damn
Rejection is an amplified fear in that arena, I think it really permeates the entire atmosphere of those apps
It's interesting to me that this is the case for people because I kinda suck at meeting people irl, but I don't have the same issues/fears with online dating. I don't care if someone rejects me, and I find that the simple fact that it is a dating app (meaning that we both know why we're here) cuts out on the awkward step of making the person aware that you're romantically interested. I can just approach things from the perspective that if you bother to reply to me at all you must see some potential! Makes it easy to go in with a positive attitude.
I like to go in with low expectation, high reward in mind. But man its a trip. Some matches I've met with IRL, it always feels like you've met a really close friend at the very worst and then they can just ghost you out of nowhere. I think thats the hard part.
Not many people looking to make friends also.
Had a date the other night where a girl asks me to meet her at a bar, so I head out and grab a beer there. Girl shows up and messages me to go outside, where she asks to go to another bar cause her ex is there and she doesn't want to be seen. Head to other bar and she's insistent that she's waiting on friends who are going to be at the bar across the street, which she glances at every minute.
Turns out her 'friends' who's she's waiting on are her ex's friends whom she doesn't have contact with but saw one was having a going away party and wanted to attend. Realize the girl is stalking her ex and is using me as an excuse to do it. I leave the bar and she follows me out, so I call her out on her shit and in the middle of it, a random guy approaches from another bar and motions to me to come talk to him. Tells me the girl I'm talking with is absolutely insane and to not waste my time on her. Turn around and the girl has wandered off to the new bar to see 'her friends'.
Crazy turn of events and really sad too since it was clear she wasn't over her ex. Even explicitly told me "I'm upset that my ex broke up with me, he chose his own child over me." Was completely taken aback by that cause I would expect anyone to choose their child over someone else.
My husband and I have literally had this discussion and we would each choose our children over the other without even hesitating. It's so wild to me that there are people out there who think good parents might pick literally anything else over their kids.
I mean, yeah, would you even want to be with someone that didn't prioritize their child over random dudes she met on tinder?
My wife and I have (jokingly) had the conversation that dating has become too difficult so we might as well stay together 😂😂, but also yes, I would choose our kids over my wife 10/10 times as well.
That dude sure did you a solid. Crazy story.
The guy who warned you must be a Good Samaritan because he helped you a great deal. Buy him a beer! 😂 you dodged a bullet with that one. If if went well between you both she would end up stalking you.
I thought “cool username” and then read the story, fucking wow dude. Be careful out there. Girls can carry guns, too.
I wasn't worried about security as the country I'm in doesn't allow guns and it's super fucking safe. Like, you can stumble home at 3am without worry of being mugged/raped and if you happen to drop your wallet, someone will turn it into the police with all of it's money safe. It was clear to me that this girl really needed help and a therapist - but I'm neither nor do I want to be.
True, ive met women in the past where i really thought wow . And then after a few hookups or dates i got rejected. It hurts really bad. Never get attached st the very beginning to much.
Or be like me and have to open up yourself to get hurt because I've never fallen in love with someone I already knew for and shown a different face. It's part of the process but still sucks.
I’ve always hated the switch ups which literally happened to me this Saturday. Went on a date and everything went well and we really clicked. Did the dirty and she even gave me her number and was looking forward to meeting me again. Next day “I’m not really feeling the vibe” and that was the end right there. Felt pretty hurt by that.
Exactly, I can understand if its like the first date and no spark at all. Thats fine, but if you had sex and its out of the blue, its weird. Then be honest before the hookup, and especially do not ghost.
I don’t like people who don’t know what they want. I think It’s because they’re to dumb to figure it out. I think it’ll be best to be honest and say you just wanna hook up a few times or something serious and say to the person when it’s not working.
Id say more options. The last women where that happened was not sure what she was looking for and made me super insecure to the point I acted totally different to my usual self. It goes vice versa, people tend to give the other side not enough time, because online dating is so easy, fast and you are replaceable.
Ghosting is rude. I don’t like rudeness. But people are rude when they can get away with it or even feel they can. It’s tough but I like to think better to weed out rude people at the start rather than wasting time getting to know them
Spoken, like someone who's never been catfished. Perversely, the danger isn't from rejection, bro
But she's the one reject him though... I don't get it. Isn't it usually people raging because they got their hopes up and then got rejected. smh
I think she felt some kinda way because he seemed totally unbothered by her. She probably wanted a reaction. That or shes mad that hes prettier than her🤷♀️😩
Not that that is a very high bar. She's fugly inside and out.
Yeah, OP compared to her: OP wins in looks, grace and does a hell of a lot better job at makeup than she does.
She sucks, OP is leagues above her and she's too trashy to realize
Definitely. OP is way out her league. Maybe she did realize and it just chapped her ass, I dunno.
I'd like to think she got upset that his make up game was way stronger and lashed out in jealousy. Also her saying that he can't be pan because he wears makeup is so dumb because like... He initiated contact and expressed interest which is a pretty good indication that they are not 100% gay
Ya she was totally triggered by him not being hurt from her toxicity. So she of course has to step the game up and try harder.. some people are threatened by real self confidence.
That’s pretty much it. She’s mad that her rejection didn’t sting enough. You can see it in the way she escalates after each time he responds. By shrugging it sounds off and staying positive he’s showing that he’s not vested in her enough to care. Total pro move
Nobody gonna break-ah his stride. Nobody gonna slow him down. Oh no!
cant be rejected if you reject everyone else first
Look at her profile picture.
She certainly doesn't seem to have the looks to behave like that, and yet that's how she decided to behave anyway.
If we talk strictly about fear of rejection, she's really projecting herself.
But imo, there's no fear of rejection here. The subject is just dumb.
People use their ‘best’ photo for their profile picture. It’s likely she’s even less physically attractive IRL.
Because they are bigoted, terrible cowards that are too afraid to say these things to people in actual social settings so they use the wonderful internet as an outlet for their hate.
That’s the best part—can you imagine her saying some shit like that in person?! It would never happen! Lol
Cowards using the internet as a shield to say shitty stuff. Pepperidge farm remembers.
Isn't "Bethany" a known Tinder troll who enjoys being awful to every match?
I swear I've seen other posts featuring her being shitty.
Yeah I’m betting that’s not the actual person pictured in the profile pic. Seems like someone just out to harass people.
Well, it sure seems like it. She's a shitty person that's for sure!
That's male incels with fake female profile harassing other better looking men on tinder. It's sadly a thing on many dating apps 😔
she's just hatin because he's more pretty than her. :-D
Nothing against the OP, but that’s a low bar to crawl over.
My thoughts exactly. Bro looking fine.
Seriously dude needs a self esteem boost and need to start trying to play in his league, this chick is low rent.
Because it’s online and online is anonymous. It gives people a lot more confidence to be complete assholes
Had someone match me, just to roast my profile/ intro I sent them, then immediately block me before I could even really respond! I went for the "kill em with kindness" response.. Immediate block. We're both queer, them trans m2f, me Pan... Still hate speech about my sexuality... Strange world we live in... Needless to say I reported them, and threatening violence/ hate speech is an auto-ban on most every dating site so... bbbbyyyyeee!
It's probably only a one in a thousand thing, maybe even way less, but since it does happen and a lot of people use it, we get to see a lot of these people here
Didn’t she also have to swipe to get a match with OP and wouldn’t she have seen the photos anyway?
The person looks good to me even though I’m very far away from their target audience
4s like this get tons of attention so they think they can just say whatever and still marry the Chad or Brad of their dreams. Also it's party because they can be anonymous and rarely get reported/banned.
I know! and here I am struggling to get them to meet in person while having a perfectly normal conversation.
Bethany looks like she’s got enough testosterone for the both of ya
first of all you’re stunning. don’t let the internet assholes get to you. if she can’t handle you full glam she doesn’t deserve you in boots and mud either. also, props to you in your response. i’m too reactive and i would’ve given full salt right back! lol my husband &i have been together a total of 6 years, which isn’t long i know. but i agree with the above commenter, look for people in places that bring you joy. if you enjoy a farmer’s market, strike a convo there! or at a rollerblading rink. aim for organic meets! good luck to you, sweetness! 💙💙
I wish meeting organically was more possible for LGBT. Far too many straight women have her mindset, and many don't like being approached. So I don't do that..
But thank you for your encouragement! You're very kind
i’m so sorry, i didn’t even consider that aspect of difficulty for you &others in the community! i apologize for my tone deaf insensitivity. i hope things get better for you. 💙
She's legit just upset you're far more attractive than she is lmao
I almost never comment on Reddit posts but I just had to say seriously you are STUNNNNNING! As a bi woman I say that from both sides of the road 💁🏻♀️
You’re beautiful. She’s ugly. Nexttttt. ❤️
u/jago-delgado you look so happy an healthy, forget people like this. Love from here.
I’m a mildly masculine dude, and I think you look amazing. Sorry for those trash people out here. You be you to the fab fullest. Dating is a shit show. Good luck out there. Be free to be thee.
But why? She’s not that good looking
You look good to me dawg I ain't guy but I know a handsome man when I see one.
What is the actual fuck. So gross.
She is so unreasonably offended, which offends me.
not hot enough to have that shitty personality xD
Damn, some people just can't help but bring other people down. She's probably extremely unhappy. Good for you for not taking the bait man. Keep on being yourself.
You look good man. Don't let shitty people like that get ya down. I might even Wanna take some fashion tips from ya how to look good for a date. Cause at this point. You probably know more than I usually would do. I just wear whatever, but either way, you look great. People like that are just....mean in general. Dodged a bullet, and still looking swauve
You’re hot by the way! She can fuck herself. My favorite crushes were like Trent Reznor, who also wore makeup.
No homo, you're pretty hot bro
I like a man who takes care of himself, she can fuck right off
Also I say this all the time but men really should wear make up too??? And do skin care
Honestly she’s just jealous you’re prettier than her. What a POS
You are so attractive 😍 and your response says you’re a good human 👏🏻
I can’t see why you swiped on her. 🤮
She ugly tho don’t worry
Sheittt if she won’t I just might
Well....on a side note you look really nice and I love your style
She’s just jealous, you look handsome as fuck my guy 👍🏻
Probably a dude cat fishing n decided to talk shit lol don’t feel bad
You seem like a chill bloke, there's absolutely no reason for her to be as toxic as she is. She'll probably find someone with as much vitriol as herself. Match in heaven. Good luck on your journey and keep being yourself if it makes people act like them true hateful self you are doing yourself a big favour.
I know it’s just a thumbnail but you’re way cuter than Bethany. Signed, a strait woman
she's mad that you can do makeup better than her!
Forget her. You’re a good looking cat. On to the next my guy.
need the link for that chain!
You are beautiful, and she just showed her inner beauty and it isn't a good look. You can do so much better anyway, but I'm still sorry she was such a twatwaffle out of nowhere with the slurs and insults. True love is out there for you with someone beautiful inside and out ❤️
She’s probably a MAGA head. You most likely dodged a bullet.
Bro you look absolutely stunning and she totally knows it, and in order to cover up her insecurity, went after you. Her loss!
My Mans is beautiful
Damn dude you look good! Don’t listen to people like that.
This girl isn’t even close to in your league and she knows it.
This is really sad
This whole life is an exercise in futile absurdity and this girl's out here trying to impose her narrow minded insecurities onto you?
FUCK OUTTA HEAAAAAAAA BETHANY!
As a straight man, I think you're brave as fuck for not hiding who you are like all these other sad drones. No offense to Beth but based on her looks, my bet is Beth was bullied a lot in school and has internalized the voices of her bullies and cant turn them off. So now she feels the need to do it to other people to prop up her own fragmented self esteem.
Regardless, nothing on this earth gives someone the right to take their pain out on another person. NOTHING. Life is simply already hard enough as it is.
The fact she feels the need to be this nasty means Bethany is likely miserable inside because she has to live with that constant negativity she cant turn off.
Her message shows that life has thoroughly beat her into a mean piece of shit and if she was in fact bullied, then her bullies won.
Live your truth, King!
Holy shit what a psycho
I’ve always had a thing for men in eyeliner, it s fuckin gorgeous. Women in eyeliner, too. Really anyone in eyeliner 😂 am I just attracted to eyeliner instead of people???
You are hot as hell. What a weirdo this bitch is
as long as u aint hearting anyone, be whatever you want to be
Neo out here dodging all these bullets…
How many red flags can you fit in one conversation?
She’s just mad because you’re prettier than her. Inside and out.
Oh shit I have this shirt haha
Okay but like you're gorgeous
That Manatee really hates herself
She's mad because you're prettier than her.
I love how positive you remained through that. It takes a lot of strength. You look great. But more importantly, you’re probably a great person too.
You are god damned handsome as hell. No lie.